How To Get Your Baby Or Toddler Off The Pacifier


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  1. JHS says:

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  2. Anonymous says:

    I’m trying to wein my 2 year old off the pacifier but her dad won’t he says it will hurt her teeth or she will suck on her lip is that true

  3. Candis says:

    My 2 1/2 year old is totally dependant on his papa…one day it dropped in the toilet and i told him to throw it in the garbage.It has been 3 days now and it is truly a struggle he is not the same anymore he wants me to hold him now(in place of papa) considering giving it back, but it has been 4 days already. Confused what should i do?

  4. Eric says:

    I guess the question is did he have the pacifier all the time or only for bed? If your son had it all day long then it will be a much more difficult process. It really helps to first restrict the use of the pacifier to nap and bedtime only. The 3 day rule will really only work well if the use is for these times only. Otherwise it can be more difficult as you are stating. keep me posted.

  5. Scott says:

    I have a five year old daughter who cannot sleep without her paci! She keeps it under her pillow only. There’s no other issue other than the fact that she needs it to fall asleep. I want to completely rid her of it, but can’t muster up enough strength to battle through a few unresting nights by taking it away from her. Any suggestions out there?

  6. Jennifer says:

    My husband and I came up with an idea to get our son (2 1/2) off his paci – with a little planning and preparation, it worked like a charm! In November we talked off and on about Christmas, Santa, etc and we told our son that if he put all his pacifiers in his stocking, Santa would fill it with goodies! Then we explained how there were so many babies all over the world that didn’t have pacis and Santa needed our help. We talked about it and prepared him for weeks in advance. On Christmas eve day, we had a scavenger hunt around the house to collect all the pacis; then Christmas eve, he put all of them in his stocking. When he woke up Christmas morning, we reminded him to check his stocking. It was filled with little toys, candy, and other knick knack fun stuff —- NO PACIS!!! At first, he was a little shocked, then we reminded him that Santa took them to give all the little babies (…he wasn’t a baby anymore) and Santa gave us chocolate, etc in exchange for our pacis. He was so happy with his new ‘items’, he didn’t care! However, we did have to remind him at naptime/bedtime why Santa took our pacis and how much of a big helper he was, but only for a couple weeks. He now sleeps with a stuffed animal – that’s it. We were even able to bypass thumb-sucking!!! :) Hope this helps…

  7. Jtbruder says:

    I read the 3 days of crying after taking a paci away, my daughter just turned 2 is now sleeping in a big girl bed and trying to potty train……. only has her paci in bed and always has but the past 2 weeks she seems to be wanting it more often while she is awake when she gets upset and so on and so forth so now i really want to get rid of it! Gonna try to get her to wrap it up to give to Santa next week……. figure its gonna be a rough 3 days as she only uses it to fall asleep if you go in to check on her during the nite its usually on the bed next to her! Any other ideas to make this easier on her? Or on us as im sure there will be alot of screaming till she falls asleep that is if she does fall asleep! If she wakes during the nite and cant find it she will cry till we get up and find it for her…….. any ideas will be greatly appreciated!

  8. Amy McClellan says:

    I have 3 year old twins, both on pacifiers, only some use during the day, both are very dependant. TIPS PLEASE I am losing my mind with this subject, wanna get them off this weekend.

  9. Eric says:

    Amy, my suggestion is to try what I wrote in the post above. But if you are going to do it make sure you are committed to doing it and expect that it will be a bit difficult Friday and Saturday night. There will probably be a lot of crying for the pacifier.

    If you give in to their crying you could try again in a month or so.

  10. Tara says:

    My son is 27 months and we took his paci away 8 days ago. It’s like having a newborn again. He has been waking up every couple hours screaming for it both at night and nap. He only used it in his bed prior to taking it away. We told him he was a big boy and we needed to send it to his baby cousin in cleveland. He understands that we sent them away. I’m at my wits end but do not want to give them back. HELP. SO TIRED.

  11. Anonymous says:

    Tara, I am going through the same situation with my 36 month old. We took her paci away 7 nights ago and she wakes up at least 3 times/night screaming and upset, not asking for her paci, but just does not sleep well when she used it. I’m extremely tired and hope this cycle ends soon. Do you have support? Very important! A good book that I’ve been reading is “Good Night Sleep Tight” by Kim West. Stay strong and wish you the best!

  12. Ryan says:

    For those of you who are struggling: try replacing the pacifier with a more “healthy” soothing method.

    Our 24-month old has been restricted to pacifier use only during naps and bedtime for almost a year, and we decided now would be a good time to wean her off it. The first two nights she asked repeatedly for her “ba ba”, and she sounded devastated, like a good friend had been taken away from her. At that point I started to reconsider taking it away…it just didn’t feel right taking this item (somewhat arbitrarily) that she had become so attached to. She bawled for about 5 minutes and fell asleep. Same routine the next night. She has never been terribly attached to a stuffed animal, so on the third night I offered to let her pick a stuffed animal to sleep with her, as if it was a new privilege. She initially didn’t like the idea, but eventually she grabbed a teddy bear, cuddled up with it and went to sleep without a word or a tear.

  13. latoya says:

    My daughter just turned 1 years old a week ago i took the passy away this friday she didnt even know it was gone until it was time for bed she cryed for a hole hr. then she fell asleep satday nite she didnt even think of the passy she sleeps better without it.

  14. Eric says:

    Thanks for the comment latoya. I happy it worked for you.

  15. Jamie says:

    My son is 26 months old. We took away his binky three days ago. He was restricted to using it only during nap and bedtime. For the past 3 days it has taken forever to get him to sleep and his up early in the morning, during the night and hardly taking a nap anymore. I am about to give the binky back..although I do not want to. Do you have a good advice on how to help him self soothe?? Up to this point he was an excellent sleeper.

  16. Brenda says:

    We just took the “binky” from my grand daughter 20 months old. we cut the end of it off and told her the bad dog ate it. It was long enough to still put in her mouth, but had no suction…at the end of the day and pushing it back in her mouth all day, she got tired of doing it…we said why dont you throw the broken binky away, which she did. when she asked for it the next day, we reminded her that she had thrown the broken binky away. Our plan was is she still wanted it after we cut the end off…we would continue every week to take a little more off until it would not stay in her mouth at all…Our plan worked the first time however.

  17. Lori says:

    With all 3 of our children we cut the tip of the nuk off and the kids accepted that it was broke and that was the end of it. They were all in the range of 2 yrs old when we decided to take it away with restrictions to nap and bedtime for a quite a while before cutting it. Good Luck!

  18. sona says:

    Hi, you can make a slit on the pacifier and let your kid use it. She won’t take a pacifier after two days. It worked for my baby (20 months)

  19. mandaB says:

    i tried many different things when my daughter was around two years old. but the thing that worked best was when i cut the tip of the pacifier off and gave it to her like normal. at first i cut too much of it off and it pissed her off. then i did another one, but ONLY the tip. then she basicly broke herself. she spit it out, looked at it and didnt want anything to do with it. and it was over with.

  20. Tammy says:

    For all who is trying to take the binky or passy away cold turkey we have a 2 year old and my mother suggested cutting the tip off and letting her use it that way. we did that and she looked at us and said “broken” and took it to the trash and threw it away.

  21. Lisa S. says:

    I found a product online that helped my 2 year old. We decorated the mailer box and “mailed’ the pacifier to the paci-fairy. My daughter got a stuffed animal, a “big kid” certificate and fridge magnet. She’s so proud now that she’s a big girl. 5 weeks now. Here’s the website if you’re interested.

  22. Sam says:

    I just want to add a tad here, all of your ideas are great, and all the questions are legit, but i do have to say all children are different. My son was walking before 9 months, some dont walk till a year and half, and we got him off his bottle at 11 months now, some people said it would take a while. As where my son is quick this paci act may take some time. These ideas are great, but we have to understand genetics, if we were buttjeads, our children may be too :)

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